This is a weird one. The wife of a patient seems to do something to hurt him every day. I brought it to the attention of a regular nurse and she was like "oh yeah, she told me she wants him to die and I don't blame her. He's on dialysis and she doesn't want to take care of him." So crazy to me. I would have done anything for my loved ones. He's fine, his grown children come and adore him. I'm chilled to the bone by the wife and the nurse.
I think the daughter hates her, a lot of stuff there. Adorable grandchildren. They all love him.
She almost made him fall yesterday; I was beyond angry. I called in a therapist to help (luckily she was in the next room). Witness: the therapist told her "you almost killed your husband". The PT was angry, more than me if possible. I was amazed at how normal she sounded. Just normal , voice calm. I wanted to scream. I was and am so grateful someone else was there and saw this. The PT in a very calm, deliberate voice told off the wife and recorded it all.
Today the daughter and grandchildren visited and nothing happened.
I took care of my parents and they were far worse off then this man. He's young 70's, needs dialysis, but mentally fine. I would have done anything. I don't understand.
I do get not being able to take care of a loved one; its so hard Just why hurt them? Make other arrangements and move on. Or let another. willing, family member do it and don't be awful to them.
Just, each and every one of us faces this. I think families should take care of each other with kindness and love. I see this a lot and it always makes me happy.